One of the chio-est member in the Management Committee (J) had a casual conversation with me over the MSN about leaders, as her boss was so damn irritating and had to turn to me (I'm being labelled as a VP who listens to my men whining). So her views were:

1) leaders dont take sides.. they are impartial to all their members
2) leaders who build up and raise other leaders are what makes them remarkable
3) leaders always are willing to listen to others
4) it's a leaders job to maintain harmony in a group
5) action speaks louder than words. walk the talk and show you're worth the respect
6) a leader, stands up for her members all the time, and relates to them not only as a leader during work, but outside as a friend

It is only during this conversation that I realised how shitty J's boss is, up to the extent that she has to come and whine to the no. 2 (yours truly). Of course, with her chio looks and everything, I listened to her whinings and gave her practical solutions to her problems.

Ultimately, my advice was, "be answerable to yourself and your sub committee, because once you achieve that, you will have a clear conscience and tell yourself that you've tried your very best. In this way, no one can fault you."

It is during this one year that I learned about the ugly side of people.

May this be a good learning experience for me.

28th August 2009.

I cannot wait for this day.

kk, i blog.

love

love is patient
love is kind
it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud
it is not rude, it is not self-seeking
it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs
love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth
it always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres
love never fails
(1 Corinthians 13:4-8a, NIV)
~ A walk to rmb

love is like the wind, i can't see it. but i can feel it.

if i can only think of you, you're too far.
if i can see myself in your eyes, you're too near.
but if we close our eyes and kiss, it's just right.

time to give our blog some life~!

Looking at our blog moulding as each day passes, I guess everyone is having a great life with nothing emo happening around. Nevertheless, emo has never left us. Its just waiting for a chance to strike on us. Lets start the ball rolling again...

Dearest,

Its so amazing how we met,
Yet so amusing why we did not met earlier.
Its so crazy how we got together,
Yet so meant to be why we are together.

It wasn't easy at the start but I have nothing to complain because it is the best thing that could ever happen to me and that's you. If I were to turn back time, I will still do the same thing. Else, it will be my biggest regret to give up and let you go.

Time and time, I do, say, assume, thought so the wrong things and unknowningly I got it all wrong. You gave me all the chances to learn and to be better and I sincerely will. Sorry may seem to be a useless word already and actions may be the best sorry. Now, give me a day, a month, a year, a lifetime to write the greatest ever love story that you and I went through.

Love,
Chris

http://www.mycen.com.my/rescue/

see this and i got emo.

where's the photos?

where's the photos ah hao? haha..